When you get marry, you may care some wedding superstitions. They are both good and bad, but trying to keep up with them will only add to your wedding stress. Our advice? Forget about them! This list has all the silly superstitions that are totally okay to ignore—or to put your own twist on.
1. You can’t see each other before the wedding.
Today, some couples stick to tradition because they like the excitement and anticipation of seeing each other for the first time at the ceremony. But we say, do what makes you most comfortable. We know lots of couples who’ve bucked tradition and stayed in the same room the night before, had breakfast together the morning of, and scheduled their photo sessions together with their photographer before the ceremony. Nothing beats an emotional first look photo. 
2.Steer clear of yellow roses
If you love a flower, give it your own special meaning, especially if it has some significance to you, and don’t worry a bit about what those Victorians would’ve said. Trust us—we’ve seen some seriously gorgeous yellow floral arrangements. 
3.The bride has to be carried over the threshold.
Do it for fun when you get home from the honeymoon, if you want, as a nod to wedding tradition. Or give it a contemporary twist: Walk hand in hand into your new home together instead.
4.Don’t get married on a Saturday, in May, or on the 13th of the month.
Attempt to book your dream venue while following those calendar-related myths and you’ll immediately understand why you should ignore them. Unless your family tradition dictates that you find a lucky or auspicious wedding date, choose any beautiful wedding day that works for you, and don’t look back. 
5.You’re doomed if you drop the ring.
Obviously that’s just nonsense. But it does lead to another a good point—if you have a ring bearer handling your rings (especially one who’s very young), make sure those bands are tied tightly enough, and that you hand the ring pillow off to him at the last minute, just before he walks down the aisle. No one will be doomed if the rings fall, but you definitely don’t want to lose them. 
